Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Don't Work Mom, I Need You


As per Hindu mythology, the father believed that heaven and earth mother believed the child. Just as heaven and earth are inevitable for the seedlings grow into trees, so that mom and dad for your newborn. While the father protects this plant from UV radiation and harmful elements in society other than the provision of financial and social backing, the mother nurtures him food that provides all the essential elements to enable it turn out to be a good human being. She is one to instill moral values​​, ethics and culture, to his noble and great instincts. Now all this sounds so good, but it is still true as far as today's moms are concerned?

With more and more young women becoming career-oriented now, it would be premature to say anything. More than a good mother, there arose rather from the professionals really be better. But in this era of cutthroat competition of professional, they seem to be forgetting the little ones, waiting at home for her caressing hand. In light of these circumstances, most parents, especially in nuclear families left with no other option but send their children to day care centers or nurseries or just rent a governess at home to take care of them. But that, they do not realize that more than a governess, a child needs his 'mom', especially in the formative years. Imagine what kind of luck will get a child when his mother fed him home-cooked food with their hands, when he returns from school ...

a child can get a good education at school, but to be good human being and a good citizen in the hands of his mother. After all, the "good mother is a good teacher ".

I see no reason to say that women should not work. They have every right to walk shoulder to shoulder with the man. period of male chauvinist society has become part of history today. Although when it comes to raising children, the clouds of confusion around me. Only a child dressing up and paying fees are not sufficient, but the inclusion of the mother is more important for the child's mental and physical growth. aged 3-8 years is the transition period in the life of a child that will carry them through their lives. It's a big impact at this time inculcate in them the basic manners and moral values​​, as well as to familiarize them with their culture, something that can not get to learn in school or kindergarten.

Nothing can be more important for a young lady, but shape the future of their children. There is no wrong in a woman being ambitious and committed to her career. But at the same time it is very important to keep personal grooming, as well as the progress of their child under control. For that great attention should be paid to the child, especially when they reach 80-10 years of his age. As a mom, you should also keep a close eye on your company or circle of friends.

In light of the mother goes into the office, the child often feels lonely and gets indulged in bad company. It really can make it to acquire some undesirable habits and thus may destroy his character. Now, if you feel that you are worried at the thought of giving your child a priority, here is a piece of advice for all you young working mothers. You do not need to cancel your professional life or sacrificed their dreams for the sake of your child. What you can do is make a stop or obediently in his career for several years, and until your child reaches the age of 6-8 years or so, then you can start again. After all, your qualifications and experience certainly does not make it difficult for you to find a job, even after several years ..

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